<table style="min-width: 25px"><colgroup><col></colgroup><tbody><tr><td colspan="1" rowspan="1">&nbsp;I often work with people who have sharp, analytical minds—a gift that helps them think critically, question assumptions, and avoid blindly accepting new ideas.&nbsp;But here’s something I’ve noticed: we’re quick to pick apart a new perspective, searching for its flaws, yet the beliefs that already shape our lives often go unquestioned.&nbsp;What makes it so hard to question those existing beliefs is that we’re tied to the idea that they’re “the truth.”&nbsp;Now, this is fine—necessary, even—when it comes to beliefs about objective facts, like gravity. But when it comes to subjective beliefs (like “I won’t grow if I allow myself to be content”), holding on too tightly to one belief as the truth can actually hold us back.&nbsp;Why?&nbsp;Because searching for “truth” in subjective beliefs is a futile exercise. These beliefs aren’t universal truths; they’re just perspectives. You can always find evidence to prove or disprove them, depending on what you want to see. That’s how unconscious bias keeps us stuck.&nbsp;Instead of asking, “Is this perspective true or flawless?” a more helpful question is: “Is this perspective helping me move toward my intention or goal?”&nbsp;Let me give you an example.&nbsp;Imagine someone who believes, “If I allow myself to feel content, I’ll stop growing.” This belief might motivate them to strive for new goals and push beyond their comfort zone, but it can also leave them in a constant state of dissatisfaction, unable to appreciate their progress.&nbsp;Their intention might be to grow and evolve while also living a fulfilling, joyful life.&nbsp;Now, when offered a new perspective—like, “Contentment and growth can coexist; one doesn’t cancel out the other”—they instinctively push back: “But if I feel too content, won’t I lose my drive? What if I stop trying altogether?”&nbsp;What they don’t stop to question is the belief they’ve been holding all along: “Is it true that contentment stops growth? Is this belief helping move towards the life I wish for?”&nbsp;And in the process, they lose sight of why they started exploring these questions in the first place—the desire to experience a more fulfilling, balanced life while continuing to grow.&nbsp;Here’s the thing: no belief is objectively true. Beliefs are simply tools we use to navigate life. The real question isn’t whether a belief is “right” or “wrong.” It’s whether it helps you move closer to the life you want to create.&nbsp;So, the next time you’re faced with a new idea, ask yourself: “Does this perspective help me move closer to the life I wish for?”&nbsp;The beauty of beliefs is that they aren’t set in stone—they’re choices. And sometimes, choosing a new one is all it takes to unlock a world of possibilities.&nbsp; PS: If you’re looking for clarity or confidence to create a life you truly love, I’d be happy to support you. You can schedule a <a target="_blank" rel="noopener" href="https://click.pstmrk.it/3s/www.arjunsom.com%2Fcalendar/Nzu8/KOC5AQ/AQ/70c23e19-cbea-4352-ab95-d1c9f7a28efd/1/tAZoFFaXT6">free introductory call</a> to explore how coaching with me can help.&nbsp;PPS: If you wish to stay connected with me and my work, join my whatsapp community <a target="_blank" rel="noopener" href="https://click.pstmrk.it/3s/chat.whatsapp.com%2FEwotk9Qhtu5AeeHufuyTn4/Nzu8/KOC5AQ/AQ/70c23e19-cbea-4352-ab95-d1c9f7a28efd/2/0MlXQ-GExo">here</a>.</td></tr></tbody></table>

You can always find evidence to prove or disprove them, depending on what you want to see. 

Why Finding 'The Truth' About Your Beliefs Might Be a Waste of Time

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Why Finding 'The Truth' About Your Beliefs Might Be a Waste of Time

Why Finding 'The Truth' About Your Beliefs Might Be a Waste of Time

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